I cried today...
Yes. It's been a long time since I really cried, but today I had to. I don't know what to do. It seems like I am going to have a baby and that't the reason i have been feeling weird recently. Somehow I forgot to take the pill and now I don't know how to face John with the news.
You see? John thinks that two kids is enough. His experiences with children, with his wife leaving him and all, have not been that great, and he thinks that he is too old to be having children now. "One of these days," he says "I'm going to be a grandpa. This is not time to be raising a baby!"
I can see his point, but I have never been married before and I have always dreamed that I would be a mom. Oh, I'm going to start crying again! I bought a Home Pregnancy Kit, which is the best and most accurate test and it yielded positive.
Anyway, I tried to bring the subject up by mentioning my cousin Martha, who is pregnant with her fourth child and John said that... Anyway. I don't want to remember. This is bad...
This is really bad.
What can I do? How can I tell him? It is not like I'll be able to do this alone without him noticing... Soon he will begin to see the signs, and if I have not told him yet, he will be furious. I have to tell him, but I'm afraid he will reject me when I do, and at this sensitive time, I don't know if I'd be able to withstand his rejection.
Oh, my... I wish I were crying because he called me fat...
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Friday, September 25, 2009
No Way!!!
This can't be!
I have been feeling sick and all, but whan I called the Midtoon Health Hot-Line, they asked me question and thyen suggested that I could be pregnant. Imagine that! I was, of course laughing, even though I was feeling terrible, because I swore that I was taking my faithful Cycle of Life(TM) pills every single day, but then I checked and it was not funny.
No, It was not funny at all.
Apparently somehow I managed to 'forget' my pills and now I'm really scared. I know John does not want to have anymore children, but he knows I want to, so he's surely going to blame me for forgetting intentionally.
Well, it is too early to know, so I will have to wait until I can get a test done before I start worrying about that...
Who am I kidding? I am worrying already! I am a worrier. That's what I do. Oh, God! I want to cry! This is not even funny!
All right, Mabel, calm down. It can't be that bad. Probably you are not pregnant at all, and if you are, perhaps John will be okay with it. And if he's not, maybe he'll grow softer, and if not... Gaaaaaah! I can't think about this right now. I'll get a pregnancy test as soon as possible.
I hope this is a false alarm!
I have been feeling sick and all, but whan I called the Midtoon Health Hot-Line, they asked me question and thyen suggested that I could be pregnant. Imagine that! I was, of course laughing, even though I was feeling terrible, because I swore that I was taking my faithful Cycle of Life(TM) pills every single day, but then I checked and it was not funny.
No, It was not funny at all.
Apparently somehow I managed to 'forget' my pills and now I'm really scared. I know John does not want to have anymore children, but he knows I want to, so he's surely going to blame me for forgetting intentionally.
Well, it is too early to know, so I will have to wait until I can get a test done before I start worrying about that...
Who am I kidding? I am worrying already! I am a worrier. That's what I do. Oh, God! I want to cry! This is not even funny!
All right, Mabel, calm down. It can't be that bad. Probably you are not pregnant at all, and if you are, perhaps John will be okay with it. And if he's not, maybe he'll grow softer, and if not... Gaaaaaah! I can't think about this right now. I'll get a pregnancy test as soon as possible.
I hope this is a false alarm!
Monday, September 7, 2009
How embarrassing!
I would like to be an ostrich and hide my head on the dirt to avoid the world.
What can I say? I convinced John (my husband) to call the police because I was SURE that there was a murderer across the street. Well, guess what? The police responded to the call and after searching the apartments, they found the murderer, but it was not the person I was accusing.
You see, there was this guy that hit on me the day I got my new style and it seems that he just moved to the empty apartment downstairs (under Jennifer's). So, I was watching the news on channel 5 and they were talking about this murderer, "Sweet Tongue" Smithson, so I wanted to close the window but when I was there, I saw the same guy as before.
I totally panicked and thought that if he was there that must have meant that he was the killer, so I convinced John to call the cops on him and they came. I don't know how, but they searched the building and found that the real murderer was hiding there and they captured him.
Now the most embarrassing thing is that Channel 5 News came to cover the capture and they interviewed John as if he was a hero for saving the community! The other guy, the one that I was accusing (his name is Fred, by the way, Jennifer told me) was there all happy and without a clue that I had called the police on him.
I feel so guilty... I don't know what to do.
Perhaps I'll bake him a cake or something. Yes, That's what I'll do. I better get to work right now.
I'll write later about what happens.
What can I say? I convinced John (my husband) to call the police because I was SURE that there was a murderer across the street. Well, guess what? The police responded to the call and after searching the apartments, they found the murderer, but it was not the person I was accusing.
You see, there was this guy that hit on me the day I got my new style and it seems that he just moved to the empty apartment downstairs (under Jennifer's). So, I was watching the news on channel 5 and they were talking about this murderer, "Sweet Tongue" Smithson, so I wanted to close the window but when I was there, I saw the same guy as before.
I totally panicked and thought that if he was there that must have meant that he was the killer, so I convinced John to call the cops on him and they came. I don't know how, but they searched the building and found that the real murderer was hiding there and they captured him.
Now the most embarrassing thing is that Channel 5 News came to cover the capture and they interviewed John as if he was a hero for saving the community! The other guy, the one that I was accusing (his name is Fred, by the way, Jennifer told me) was there all happy and without a clue that I had called the police on him.
I feel so guilty... I don't know what to do.
Perhaps I'll bake him a cake or something. Yes, That's what I'll do. I better get to work right now.
I'll write later about what happens.
Tuesday, September 1, 2009
I think a serial killer is across the street!
Oh my!
I have not written in several days, but that doesn't mean that nothing has happenned. I am currently under a lor of stress, because just when I was thinking that john was getting better, I heard in the news that a dangerous fugitive had been spotted near Midtoon.
When I heard that the man is known for raping and murdering young blonde females, I was scared, so I went to close the window and there he was! He was across the street just talking to the owner of the apartments, as if he wasn't even worried that the police may see him.
I've heard that he stalks his victims for quite a while before attacking them, so it seems clear that he is after me! Oh, come on, I am the only blonde female on this street! And of course, I'm young!
I wanted to call 911 right away, but was paralyzed by fear when I saw him walking with a dark rectangular object (I think it was a rifle case) and Jennifer opened a door for him and then went inside with him! Yeah, yeah, I know she's not blonde, but what if she witnesses something suspicious? I know the killer won't hesitate to get rid of her as well...
Then I ran to tell John, but at first he didn't believe me. They said in the Newspaper that several people have called the police with false alarms, so he It all changed when I told him that the killer had asked me to go out with him already.
Now John called 911 and they dispatched police officers to the scene.
I am hiding in Erik's room and looking out with his telescope.
For heaven's sake, I hope they catch him quickly, before he hurts Jennifer.
I have not written in several days, but that doesn't mean that nothing has happenned. I am currently under a lor of stress, because just when I was thinking that john was getting better, I heard in the news that a dangerous fugitive had been spotted near Midtoon.
When I heard that the man is known for raping and murdering young blonde females, I was scared, so I went to close the window and there he was! He was across the street just talking to the owner of the apartments, as if he wasn't even worried that the police may see him.
I've heard that he stalks his victims for quite a while before attacking them, so it seems clear that he is after me! Oh, come on, I am the only blonde female on this street! And of course, I'm young!
I wanted to call 911 right away, but was paralyzed by fear when I saw him walking with a dark rectangular object (I think it was a rifle case) and Jennifer opened a door for him and then went inside with him! Yeah, yeah, I know she's not blonde, but what if she witnesses something suspicious? I know the killer won't hesitate to get rid of her as well...
Then I ran to tell John, but at first he didn't believe me. They said in the Newspaper that several people have called the police with false alarms, so he It all changed when I told him that the killer had asked me to go out with him already.
Now John called 911 and they dispatched police officers to the scene.
I am hiding in Erik's room and looking out with his telescope.
For heaven's sake, I hope they catch him quickly, before he hurts Jennifer.
Saturday, August 8, 2009
What to do...
John is home now.
The doctor said that his heart is in godo condiiotn, but that he should keep a close eye on it. Apparently the cause of his symptoms was stress. I know he has stress at work, poor baby! His job is very demanding, because when everything is going fine, his boss makes himfind things that could go wrong, so John spands his time solving crises or preventing them. It is definitely a negative position.
John was thinking before of quitting his job and opening a private law practice, but with the current economic climate, he feels that it is not the right time. I agree. He really does not need another cause of stress right now, especially because I don't have a job and his income supports the family.
That brings me to my next goal. I am thinking of finding a job. The reason I stayed home is that Javier was very unstable, but he seems to be doing much better, regardless of the few times he did not take his medication. I have not been called from schoool for a while, so I think that when classes resume, I can do something.
I am not sure what to do. I am thinking perhaps to get a job right now, but since I have not finished my college degree, my prospects are not that great. I have some experience in retail, and office work, but not that much. Another thing I can do is go back to school to finish my degree. I have two and a half years already of Biology, so it should be completed in a year and a half, if I go at it full-time.
I think I should do something with my life, because I don't want my husband to feel thyat he has to remain trapped into a dead-end job. I want to be able to help, so if he feels like quitting and going private, the family can be sustained during the transition.
I have to think about it...
The doctor said that his heart is in godo condiiotn, but that he should keep a close eye on it. Apparently the cause of his symptoms was stress. I know he has stress at work, poor baby! His job is very demanding, because when everything is going fine, his boss makes himfind things that could go wrong, so John spands his time solving crises or preventing them. It is definitely a negative position.
John was thinking before of quitting his job and opening a private law practice, but with the current economic climate, he feels that it is not the right time. I agree. He really does not need another cause of stress right now, especially because I don't have a job and his income supports the family.
That brings me to my next goal. I am thinking of finding a job. The reason I stayed home is that Javier was very unstable, but he seems to be doing much better, regardless of the few times he did not take his medication. I have not been called from schoool for a while, so I think that when classes resume, I can do something.
I am not sure what to do. I am thinking perhaps to get a job right now, but since I have not finished my college degree, my prospects are not that great. I have some experience in retail, and office work, but not that much. Another thing I can do is go back to school to finish my degree. I have two and a half years already of Biology, so it should be completed in a year and a half, if I go at it full-time.
I think I should do something with my life, because I don't want my husband to feel thyat he has to remain trapped into a dead-end job. I want to be able to help, so if he feels like quitting and going private, the family can be sustained during the transition.
I have to think about it...
Saturday, August 1, 2009
The Doctor's Diagnostic
Today I went to the Hospital to pick up John after a series of tests to find out what was wrong with his heart. I had to leave the keys with Jennifer, so the boys could get them when they came back.
Erik was "hanging out" with some friends at the Midtoon Plaza and Javier was at a barbecue in a friend's birthday party.
Anyway, I went to the hospital and saw John in a wheelchair, looking as if he was in pain. He was also a little upset because they had told him that the test was not going to hurt and apparently forgot to tell him that after the test he was going to be sore. The reason John was in a wheelchair was hospital rules, but as soon as we went downstairs he stood up and walked out with me.
The doctor said that there were no major issues with his heart at the moment, but that he has to be careful. He told john to eat less fatty foods and less sodium and to become a little more active. For the next two weeks, though, he has to rest, so he gave him a note to be excused from work. They are going to be monitoring his blood pressure carefully as well. I'm sure John is not very excited about dieting, since he loves fatty and salty stuff. I think it is a common thing for people from the tropics to eat these foods.
Apparently the stress of work is part of the problem (in addition to all the fatty foods and the lack of activity)
Well, I'll be watching over him a little more, because he only has one heart and I want it to last for a long time.
Luckily, they caught the problem before it becomes serious.
Erik was "hanging out" with some friends at the Midtoon Plaza and Javier was at a barbecue in a friend's birthday party.
Anyway, I went to the hospital and saw John in a wheelchair, looking as if he was in pain. He was also a little upset because they had told him that the test was not going to hurt and apparently forgot to tell him that after the test he was going to be sore. The reason John was in a wheelchair was hospital rules, but as soon as we went downstairs he stood up and walked out with me.
The doctor said that there were no major issues with his heart at the moment, but that he has to be careful. He told john to eat less fatty foods and less sodium and to become a little more active. For the next two weeks, though, he has to rest, so he gave him a note to be excused from work. They are going to be monitoring his blood pressure carefully as well. I'm sure John is not very excited about dieting, since he loves fatty and salty stuff. I think it is a common thing for people from the tropics to eat these foods.
Apparently the stress of work is part of the problem (in addition to all the fatty foods and the lack of activity)
Well, I'll be watching over him a little more, because he only has one heart and I want it to last for a long time.
Luckily, they caught the problem before it becomes serious.
Sunday, July 19, 2009
Worried for my husband...
I am worried for John.
For the last few days he has been feeling some chest pains and he doesn't want to go to the doctor. He is afraid that they are going to examine him in a painful or uncomfortable way. If he only had to go through half of what I have to go through when I visit my ob/gyn, he wouldn't be such a whiner.
I hope is nothing though, because with all the worries we have with Javier, the least thing we need right now is John getting sick.
I think I have him convinced and he will go this time.
If you have any ideas as to how to convince him, let me know by commenting on this post.
Thanks,
For the last few days he has been feeling some chest pains and he doesn't want to go to the doctor. He is afraid that they are going to examine him in a painful or uncomfortable way. If he only had to go through half of what I have to go through when I visit my ob/gyn, he wouldn't be such a whiner.
I hope is nothing though, because with all the worries we have with Javier, the least thing we need right now is John getting sick.
I think I have him convinced and he will go this time.
If you have any ideas as to how to convince him, let me know by commenting on this post.
Thanks,
LINK TO RELATED STRIP: http://www.midtoon.com/011601.htm
Friday, July 17, 2009
My new journal
Hi, my name is Mabel Campos. I was born Mabel Snyders a few more years ago than I care to admit (don't ask) in Centerville.
Most of you already know that I was married to John Campos only a few years ago, when he was a recently divorced father of two. Our children, Erik and Javier, are the center of our lives right now and they are growing up so fast that it is sometimes scary. Erik had a big dance recently and I was totally like "I'm too young to be going through this!" The good thing is that he ended up doing okay, although he was not too excited about the fact that he did not really enjoy the dance that much. He's doing okay right now.
The one that has me worried is Javier. This kid is too much! He's basically teh reason why I am a stay-home mom right now (not that I resent him or amything, let me be clear) because he is, well, I don't want to say "special" because everybody's special and also because the word has been associated with "special needs" or disabilities. Javier is a healthy kid, but he suffers from a rare condition called "Neurological Unrestrained Thought Syndrome" No, don't go looking it up in wikipedia yet, because it is so rare that Javier is only the third child disgnosed with this syndrome so far. If you are really interested in finding out more about this condition, I will have to look up the printouts our neurologist gave us from the Journal of Obscure Medical Facts, but I don't know where I put them.
Anyway, his condition has been flaring recently and his therapist thought that he needed an increase of medication. The therapist cannot prescribe mood-altering drugs, though, so she had to refer him to the neurologist (Javier loves the therapist but totally hates the neurologist) but before we had our appointment, we found out that he was not even taking his pills (See this strip for more information: http://www.midtoon.com/011406.htm) so now we know that we don't have to give him MORE medicine, just make sure he takes what we give him. I will have to police him, because he refuses to take them (see http://www.midtoon.com/011502.htm)
Anyway, I hope we get his hallucinations under control, because even though he has not done anything extreme, sometimes I'm afraid he can do dangerous stuff, like the other day (see http://www.midtoon.com/011404.htm) or get into big trouble (like here: http://www.midtoon.com/011501.htm)
Well, I apologize for the somewhat longer post, but it is my first and I wanted to explain what is going on right now. I hope I will be able to post something here once in a while, if not more often. If there's anything you wish to know about Midtoon, or a question you want to ask, you can ask me by commenting on this blog. If the question is for Erik, though, you may want to check his own journal in http://midtoonjournal-erik.blogspot.com/
See you soon,
Mabel.
Most of you already know that I was married to John Campos only a few years ago, when he was a recently divorced father of two. Our children, Erik and Javier, are the center of our lives right now and they are growing up so fast that it is sometimes scary. Erik had a big dance recently and I was totally like "I'm too young to be going through this!" The good thing is that he ended up doing okay, although he was not too excited about the fact that he did not really enjoy the dance that much. He's doing okay right now.
The one that has me worried is Javier. This kid is too much! He's basically teh reason why I am a stay-home mom right now (not that I resent him or amything, let me be clear) because he is, well, I don't want to say "special" because everybody's special and also because the word has been associated with "special needs" or disabilities. Javier is a healthy kid, but he suffers from a rare condition called "Neurological Unrestrained Thought Syndrome" No, don't go looking it up in wikipedia yet, because it is so rare that Javier is only the third child disgnosed with this syndrome so far. If you are really interested in finding out more about this condition, I will have to look up the printouts our neurologist gave us from the Journal of Obscure Medical Facts, but I don't know where I put them.
Anyway, his condition has been flaring recently and his therapist thought that he needed an increase of medication. The therapist cannot prescribe mood-altering drugs, though, so she had to refer him to the neurologist (Javier loves the therapist but totally hates the neurologist) but before we had our appointment, we found out that he was not even taking his pills (See this strip for more information: http://www.midtoon.com/011406.htm) so now we know that we don't have to give him MORE medicine, just make sure he takes what we give him. I will have to police him, because he refuses to take them (see http://www.midtoon.com/011502.htm)
Anyway, I hope we get his hallucinations under control, because even though he has not done anything extreme, sometimes I'm afraid he can do dangerous stuff, like the other day (see http://www.midtoon.com/011404.htm) or get into big trouble (like here: http://www.midtoon.com/011501.htm)
Well, I apologize for the somewhat longer post, but it is my first and I wanted to explain what is going on right now. I hope I will be able to post something here once in a while, if not more often. If there's anything you wish to know about Midtoon, or a question you want to ask, you can ask me by commenting on this blog. If the question is for Erik, though, you may want to check his own journal in http://midtoonjournal-erik.blogspot.com/
See you soon,
Mabel.
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